spend some time alone

if you are someone who has found themselves repeatedly isolated in their life–throughout several stages of age–and are placed in positions which force you to either physically and mentally be separated from the world or in terms of losing people in phases before you rise and glow up, that is not a coincidence. and i mean, to be blunt, it sucks. the continuous cycle you feel. but you are placed in these positions for a reason. now i’ve never been a fan of people who are stuck in cycles, and choose to hinder growth. but this is different. this is niche for sure. for instance, this is like the universe trying to combat your attempts to become worldly, and settle to a cycle of life which is below you.

with that point clear, it takes time to see it, but it will always benefit you tenfold. yes, some of us go through what feels like a living hell before reaching that point of gratitude and success, but people who are in their highest self are ones which find the lessons, the life, and the strength to fight within this period which gives them the ability to reach the end goal. haven’t you heard the phrase, “winners enjoy the game, not the result”. only those who lose are attached to the end. but it will feel like you’re the loser majority of the time. here’s the caveat: the degree to which you are isolated is the degree to which you will succeed. trust me, those people from high school that make it seem like they have it all figured out….not only are they living a facade, they won’t reach the level to which you will. yes it is so easy to compare yourself to others who seem to have it all, and you’re left ruminating over “what could’ve been”. honey, they don’t even know what they want, who they are, and honestly are very dull. there is no “could’ve” for them because they are not going to reach any higher.

being alone and isolated, or being put in that position allows you to see how unfulfilled you are, which is hiding behind a distracted and busy life. but don’t take my message to put yourself into isolation and actively deny people, opportunities, and life; this is for those that are placed–out of their control–into these predicaments. listen, when shit hits the fan, not only should you know that it’s meant to bring you something greater, but it too will redirect you onto the path leading to your highest timeline. sometimes you are isolated to recognize, reset, and be renewed. sometimes you aim too low. and oftentimes you will be disappointed you’re alone and didn’t get what you want. but seriously, it’s so cool that you do because the future you will be so happy that you were protected from ending up with what you thought you wanted. because you’ll always get something better than imagined. nothing you lose will ever be better than what you are going to get. and when you spend some time alone, your standards, your hobbies, your circle of people, your soul…..all level up. how lucky is it to step back from the world, SEE it, decide what you want from it, and get it.

take these individuals for instance: Marilyn Monroe, Priscilla Presley, and Paris Hilton….they’re lives were all similar in the way that they were uniquely forced into positions of severe isolation. all they could do in this period which felt like the worst time in your life? dream. i'll admit it's hard to grasp. but truly, there is extreme power of the mind, and what you visualize, to be materialized and turned to fruition. look at what happened in these cases. i don’t know anyone who hasn’t heard these names roar throughout lists of fame and success. most people don’t have the opportunity to simply think about about they want to do without any other obligations calling their thoughts.

i used to look at past lives of mine with a sense of grief. now, after an isolation stretch which has lasted a year plus, i'm thinking, boy was i wrong and how glad am i that i was pulled away from that. the people in that praised time were wrong, the place i was in was wrong, the beliefs and passions i had were wrong.

so if you feel or are literally exiled from your life, and wondering “why can’t i just be normal”, first, you’re reading the wrong person’s article, because i hate the idea of being normal. why would you want to be? and secondly, you’re not something that is meant for an ordinary life. i can’t tell you what, but you are supposed to do something different from 99% of people. you’re also being trained to see the good and what matters in our lives. a person with priorities, and a story to tell…. man, that’s someone i want to be “alone” with.

-candidly yours